A BASINGSTOKE woman who cared for her husband for more than 35 years after he suffered a type of stroke that causes bleeding in the brain, has been nominated for an award.
Lesley Vass began caring for her husband Barry after he experienced a severe cerebral haemorrhage in November 1988 at the age of 41, which caused him to be hospitalised for a year.
The now 76-year-old said her 'seemingly perfect' life took a turn after the incident, as she had to juggle being a carer along with looking after their two children and the household.
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Barry began receiving support from charity, Headway which aims to provide information, help and services for those who have experienced or know someone who has experienced a brain injury, in 1989.
Lesley joined the organisation as a trustee in 1990 and by 1995, she had taken on the role of secretary, a position which she has held for 29 years.
The mother of two was nominated by colleague Daniel Snyman, operations manager at Headway Basingstoke, for the charity's 'Carer of the Year' award.
Lesley said the nomination was 'totally unexpected' and has been 'very emotional', adding: "It has made me think about all the support Barry and I have received over the years – especially from family and friends and everyone at Headway Basingstoke.
"We have been fortunate that services were available locally.
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“It also made me realise how much support we also received from both our sons Graham and Andrew and their families. We have been very lucky, and the nomination is the icing on the cake!”
One of just three finalists for the accolade, Lesley will attend an awards ceremony held on December 5 at the JW Marriott Grosvenor House in Mayfair, London.
Daniel said: "Lesley is extremely humble and views her contributions as a natural extension of her role as a carer, rather than as extraordinary achievements.”
“This nomination acknowledges the countless sacrifices she has made and the unwavering, selfless dedication she has shown to her husband, Barry, and to the broader community of individuals affected by brain injuries.”
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